Karma
They say karma is a bitch, but maybe it goes too far sometime.
Last school year I worked at a small firm with four lawyers. One of the lawyers – who I almost never worked for – was a real asshole. He screamed at everyone: colleagues, paralegals, secretaries, opposing counsel and even clients. His way of dealing with opposing counsel was to bully them. He single handedly made that office a miserable place to work both for me and for the support staff. It’s no coincidence that they went through about eight different file clerks and secretaries during the eight months I worked there. Every couple of weeks there were new support people. His office was next to mine so I spent a lot of time listening to him yell at people. He regularly reduced one of the secretaries to tears before eventually firing her. I concluded that he was just a nasty, despicable person. I only saw a human side of him once when I caught him and the paralegal making out (yeah – kissing) in his office.
Anyway, I recently ran into another guy who worked there when I was there. He told me that this lawyer blew his brains out about a month after I left. He did it in the office. Disturbing. Needless to say, the firm moved to a different office…
4 Comments:
Man, that's CRAZY. One of the people we sued during my summer job killed himself - that was the saddest thing that happened.
I think it goes along with what my husband tells me whenever I have to deal with someone really unpleasant: Just keep reminding yourself that if you had that person's life, you might be a real jackass, too.
It's true. Happy people are not asspumps.
That's crazy. You never know what people are going through. It makes me wonder what things lead up to his death.
A lot of people don't like counseling because they want to avoid the stigma of being considered crazy. I think people should be encouraged to talk to counselors when they're displaying aggressive behavior on a consistent basis. It's so natural to assume the person is a jerk when there may be something else going on.
If I was a partner with an aggressive partner that out of control then I would intervene. We would have to talk about what's going on. It's bad for business. Also, I would really be concerned about my partner, since I wouldn't choose to work with a bad person, so I would know from his bad behavior something was wrong.
Yikes.
And quesarasara: I love the word "asspump." It's going in my daily vernacular.
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